Real Life Counselling • Surrey, British Columbia

Online counselling in Surrey, therapy that fits your life, not your commute.

You shouldn’t have to cross the Port Mann or lose an evening on Highway 1 to talk to the right therapist. We provide secure online counselling for Surrey and the Fraser Valley, matched to what you’re actually navigating, often within a week.

✓ Online anywhere in Surrey & the Fraser Valley✓ RCC-registered in BC✓ Physician referrals welcome

WHY ONLINE COUNSELLING WORKS FOR SURREY

Life in BC’s fastest-growing city is exactly what online therapy was built for.

  • Commuters crossing the Port Mann, Pattullo, or Alex Fraser every day
  • Shift workers at Surrey Memorial on rotating schedules
  • Families carrying two sets of expectations across generations
  • Parents in growing neighbourhoods juggling work, school runs, and activities
  • Couples who’d rather talk from their own living room
  • Patients referred by their family doctor

Counselling in Surrey with Registered Clinical Counsellors

Real Life Counselling provides online counselling and anxiety therapy to residents of Surrey and the Fraser Valley, British Columbia. The practice was founded in 2009 and BC counselling is delivered by Registered Clinical Counsellors with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC), under the leadership of founder Ashley Kreze, RCC, who is based in BC. Sessions are delivered by secure video anywhere in British Columbia, and the most common reasons Surrey clients reach out include anxiety, family and cultural expectations, couples and relationship challenges, stress and burnout, depression, and life transitions. Most clients begin within a week.

Surrey is growing faster than anywhere in BC, and most of the people who reach out to us here arrived in the middle of building something: a new home, a new business, a family stretched between generations and sometimes continents. It’s a lot of momentum and a lot of expectation, and both are usually carried privately.

Online therapy fits that life better than an office ever did: no bridge, no Highway 1 crawl, no waiting room. Sessions happen from your home office, the kitchen after bedtime, or wherever is private, with evening and weekend appointments that survive a full calendar.

A PRACTICE, NOT A SOLO ACT

Founder-led. Team-delivered. BC-registered.

Real Life Counselling was founded in 2009 by Ashley Kreze, a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario and a Registered Clinical Counsellor in BC, with more than 17 years of clinical experience.

When you reach out, we match you with the therapist on our team whose approach, experience, and personality fit what you’re navigating, not just whoever has the next opening. Every BC client is served under BCACC registration, to BC clinical standards.

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Online counselling for Surrey and the Fraser Valley, British Columbia

Anxiety counselling in Surrey

Anxiety is one of the most common reasons Surrey residents look for a therapist. It looks like racing thoughts at 2 a.m., the knot in the chest on the bridge, the checking and re-checking, the dread that doesn’t have an obvious name, and the pressure of expectations, your own, your family’s, and your community’s, that never quite lets up.

Anxiety counselling gives you a private, structured place to work on it with someone trained in evidence-based approaches, including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and mindfulness-based work. The work is practical: understanding what drives the anxiety, changing your relationship with the thoughts, and getting your range back. Sessions are online and confidential.

Learn about anxiety counselling

What we help Surrey clients work through

Real life rarely fits a single label. These are the most common reasons people in Surrey and the Fraser Valley reach out, and if yours isn’t here, that doesn’t mean we can’t help.

Anxiety

The kind that wakes you at 3 a.m. The kind that hums in the background of every conversation. The kind nobody else sees.

Burnout & stress

You’re doing fine on paper. In your body, you’re not. Therapy for the high-functioning version of running on empty.

Depression

Whether it’s the weight that won’t lift or the numbness that crept in slowly, there’s a path back.

Couples & relationships

Communication patterns, recurring fights, drifting apart, repairing after a rupture. Couples work that goes beyond techniques.

Parenting & family pressure

The mental load of a growing household: careers, kids’ schedules, aging parents, and expectations across generations.

Life transitions

A move, a separation, a new baby, a career change, settling into a new community. The work of becoming someone new.

Grief & loss

A person, a relationship, a version of yourself. Grief isn’t linear and it doesn’t run on a timeline.

Workplace & career

Difficult workplaces, leaving a role, returning from leave, and the pressures you can’t bring to HR.

How to start counselling in Surrey

No referral required. No waiting room. No bridge.

1

Reach out, tell us what’s going on

Fill out a short intake form. A few sentences is plenty. We’ll review it and reach back within one business day to set up a free 15-minute consultation.

2

Get matched with the right therapist

We match you with a therapist based on what you’re navigating and the kind of fit you need. Most Surrey clients begin within a week of reaching out.

3

Start sessions from home

50-minute sessions over secure, encrypted video. From your living room, your home office, or anywhere private. Evening and weekend appointments available.

Areas we serve

Surrey, the Fraser Valley, and everywhere in between.

Because sessions are online, location inside British Columbia isn’t a barrier. Common neighbourhoods and communities our Surrey clients come from:

Fleetwood
Guildford
Whalley
City Centre
Newton
Cloverdale
South Surrey
Panorama Ridge
Sullivan
Clayton
Fraser Heights
Bear Creek
Green Timbers
Port Kells
Bridgeview
Crescent Beach
Ocean Park
Grandview Heights

Honest answers to Surrey client questions

Is your therapist actually registered in BC?
Yes. BC counselling at Real Life Counselling is delivered by Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCCs) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC), and founder Ashley Kreze, RCC, is based in BC. All BC counselling is delivered under BC registration and compliant with BC clinical standards.
Do you offer anxiety counselling in Surrey?
Yes. Anxiety is one of the most common reasons Surrey clients reach out. We work with generalized anxiety, panic, social anxiety, work-related anxiety, and health anxiety using evidence-based modalities including CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based approaches. Most clients begin within a week.
My doctor referred me. What do I do?
Welcome, physician referrals from Surrey and the Fraser Valley clinics are a common way clients find us. Simply fill out the Start Counselling form and mention your doctor or clinic in the intake. We’ll take it from there, and with your consent we can coordinate with your physician so your care stays connected.
Can I see someone in Surrey in person?
No, we work entirely online, and that’s deliberate. Online therapy removes the barriers Surrey clients mention most: the Port Mann and Pattullo bridges, Highway 1 and King George traffic, parking, and fitting appointments between work, family, and community commitments. Consistency is what makes therapy work, and online sessions make consistency easy.
Are sessions covered by my insurance?
Most extended health benefit plans in BC cover sessions with a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), usually under the “Counselling” or “Clinical Counsellor” category. We provide receipts you can submit for reimbursement. Common plans include Sun Life, Manulife, Canada Life, Pacific Blue Cross, Green Shield, and Desjardins. Check your plan, or ask us during your intake and we’ll help you confirm.
How much does counselling cost?
Standard private-pay rates for Registered Clinical Counsellor sessions in BC. We’re transparent about pricing, ask during your free 15-minute consultation and we’ll walk you through it, including how to make the most of your extended health benefits.
Can my partner and I do couples therapy from different locations?
Yes. One of the practical advantages of online couples therapy is that both partners can log in from wherever they are, same home, different rooms, or one of you still at the office. We recommend quiet, private spaces and headphones for confidentiality.
How quickly can I start?
Most Surrey clients begin within a week of reaching out, sometimes within a few days. Our small clinical team means we can usually match you quickly. If you’re in crisis, please use the Get Help Now resources or call or text 988.

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The longest part of starting therapy is usually the part before you reach out. Once you do, it gets easier.